BURN THE RULES

BURN THE guilt

permission to burn

If you’re done dimming your light, playing small, people-pleasing, overthinking, and waiting for the “right time”—I’ve got you.

This is life coaching for the woman who knows she’s meant for more… and is finally ready to claim it.

This Is For You If...

  • You’re stuck in a life, job, or relationship that looks “fine” on the outside but feels like a slow death

  • You keep trying to “fix” yourself when what you really need is to free yourself

  • You’ve outgrown the version of yourself that was built to survive—not thrive

  • You’re ready to stop making everyone else comfortable at the cost of your own dreams

  • You feel the fire in your belly and just need someone to help you fan the flames

How we can work together

1 on 1 coaching

Ready to light the match? In these private sessions we’ll dig deep, melt the fears, and build daily rituals that let the real you take center stage—no people‑pleasing, just powerful forward motion.

GROUP COACHINg
(coming soon)

Community meets combustion: a sisterhood of rebels learning, healing, and rising together through guided modules, live calls, and shared sparks of accountability. Stay tuned—your next tribe is gathering.

Meet shalista

I’m the coach who’s already walked through the flames.

I built a multi‑six‑figure studio from scratch, fumbled, failed, and kept climbing until courage became my daily habit. That journey taught me a blunt truth: everything we want waits on the far side of fear—and fear burns when we confront it.

Now I help women strike the match. Whether you’re untangling old stories, launching a passion project, or simply craving a life that feels like yours, I’m here to hand you permission to burn it all down and rebuild on your own terms. Inside our sessions you’ll find equal parts strategy and soul work: nervous‑system regulation, mindset rewrites, and bold action plans that turn “someday” into “right now.”

If you’re ready to trade people‑pleasing for power and ignite a life that lights you up, let’s set it ablaze—together.